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Mark Starlin's avatar

Fortunately, Bette had the self-confidence and determination to not believe her teacher.

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Laura's avatar

I think we all have someone like this in our past, someone who seemed to defy us and who we were and where we wanted to go. I, too, had a teacher like this in middle school. She was a school counsellor back when we did aptitude tests and were told what we should grow up to be. We did not like each other. I knew she didn't understand my challenges and what was happening in my life. But I had to see her anyway. I wanted, with all my heart, to work in the medical field but she told me I was wrong, that it wasn't the field for me. To prove her wrong I graduated as a medical laboratory technologist and, after 1 & 1/2 years, had to accept she was right. What an awakening. I learned that everyone has wisdom but we can miss it when we get caught up in emotional responses. She had urged me to become a school counsellor, like her, and now, a lifetime later, I realize I would have loved it. Thankfully I diverted into a completely different field where I found success in my career but, oh, if only I had listened instead of hearing 🤣🤣 Good story, Dascha!

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