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So many wasted years.

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And I've seen it so often, both within my family and my medical practice.

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🙁

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Why do we resist what heals? Forgiveness takes courage.

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In this case, it was Armand's inability to acknowledge and face his own guilt for not being there for his mother. Our reasons are myriad. It's sad, really.

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It's always been hard for me to forgive myself for perceived inadequacies so I identify with Armand. I don't have anyone I've cut myself off from but I don't know that the exact circumstance matters, it's the feeling that I failed, the belief I could have done more or done better. So I found this a beautiful message of hope. There's still time. Embrace forgiveness, not just for others but for ourselves, too. Your stories are always so inspiring. Love you, love them ❤️

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Thank you, dear friend. I think most people feel we haven't done enough and carry guilt around it, or worse, shame. Self- forgiveness, I think, is the first step toward healing.

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Plucked my heart strings! Good surprises along the way 😁

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Glad it touched you, Connie! 💕

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